A fateful ferry ride (Rousse)

The hire car was parked just 200 yards away. I was meant to walk this short distance down the road and drive it back to the house.

Instead I embarked on a road trip with colleagues TF and RS, and my sister J. This took us overseas to dodgy driving on wide American highways. We came face to face with the oncoming traffic that approached us on the ‘wrong’ side of the road.

Our return brought us back to Leith. We simply hoped to park by the docks, but somehow ended up in the queue for the Herald of Free Enterprise. When we found ourselves on deck, little did we know that we were about to set sail on a doomed passenger ferry, never to return.

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A kitchen break-up drama (Rousse)

I knew that it was unfair to drag our new lodger R into my personal crisis, but I was desperate. Was there anything that she could do to persuade TPR not to end our marriage? K was extremely cross with me for putting R into this awkward position: if TPR had decided to leave me, that was up to him.

So as I placed clean mugs from the dishwasher into the kitchen cupboard (wondering which ones would count as mine), K counselled R not to join in the discussion. Meanwhile  TPR ignored me, his eyes firmly fixed on his iPhone.

I chanced a remark at TPR, asking what was so fascinating on his screen.

‘It’s BD’, he replied. ‘His supposedly private Messenger conversation with his mother about his recent break-up is being broadcast publicly. And no, in case you’re wondering, you and I will never be reconciled’.

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A lochside home with a tiny, floppy, brown cow (Rousse)

When we heard that BP was vacating his flat at the Pleasance, TPR and I said that we might be interested in it. However, since it was accessed through a gym, we had to wait until opening time to view the accommodation.

At first I was disappointed by the lack of space and old fashioned décor, thinking that the flat comprised just a couple of rooms. Then I found a door that led through to another wing that included a massive kitchen and bedrooms for our (new to us) flatmates. Best of all was a small sitting room with a wide window that looked over the loch and along the glen. I was sold on the view, and now determined to live here.

The only issue was the tiny, floppy brown cow that had taken a shine to me. How ill was it? Could I save it from death?

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Still rainy in the south (Rousse)

ET moved south hoping for better weather. She was mistaken. It rained just as much there as it had in the north.

However, her living accommodation was now much grander. She had bought a large Georgian house with an extension out the front (albeit it was rather flimsy with its fabric ‘walls’ flapping in the wind, and thus not at all sound-proof). She was also much closer to the sea.

The time that I visited, I spent the afternoon on the pebble beach with MB and my mother. When we returned to the house afterwards it was unclear whether or not we would be charged for our stay.

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Sustainable yarn sources (Rousse)

I spun different shades of yarn from two sources: dust balls from the corners of the sitting room (mainly grey), and fluff accumulated by the tumble dryer (purple, blue and lilac).

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Photographing ferrets in Stockton-on-Tees (Rousse)

From an upstairs window I could see my sister S and her partner C standing on the front step of their house with a couple of black ferrets in their arms. “They would be great to photograph!”, I thought, so I collected my camera, ran downstairs, and crossed the road.

My sister lived in a beautiful late eighteenth century on Bowesfield Lane in Stockton-on-Tees. In a Georgian city such as Bath or the Edinburgh New Town, it would have been worth a fortune. However, in a town on Teesside, it was not.

It was years since I had crossed the threshold of my sister’s house. I was pleasantly surprised to find that she was no longer an untidy hoarder: all the beautiful features of the house were clearly visible, such as the hand-painted frieze in the entrance porch. She showed me through to her tidy kitchen, and the utility room extension that was not quite finished, yet neatly organised.

Then we stepped out into the garden. Oh dear! It was terribly overgrown and it was very difficult to navigate a way through the undergrowth to the back wall where C was holding the ferrets. The peace was also disturbed by reggae music pounding from a ghetto blaster.

Then a beefy, tattooed neighbour from the street behind my sister’s garden jumped over the wall to join us. I couldn’t work out whether he was looking for drugs or a fight. He didn’t give the impression that he was there to be photographed with the ferrets.

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Octogenarian bed-hopping (Rousse)

When we woke in the morning my husband and I found my eighty year-old mother comfortably sandwiched between us in our king-sized bed.

At which point during the night had she sneaked in without our noticing? How could we politely ask her to leave?

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The one advantage of being single (Rousse)

I finally understood that TPR’s really did intend to divorce me. This was on the day that he told me (in front of his boys’ book group friends) that he would not be sleeping on the sofa bed that night, but ‘going out’ instead.

So this was it. Without him, what meaning would there be in the rest of my life? How would our families and friends cope with this awful and unexpected news? Would I ever find another partner? How? Was there any chance that J would have me?

The single advantage of my newly single status was that I could experiment with online dating, and then be eligible to contribute to FR’s research.

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An octogenarian goes cycling (Rousse)

My mother and I joined the main carriageway carefully – which is just as well because a large timber lorry had obviously not seen us on our bikes, and nearly took out the pair of us. We were heading north to V and C’s house to observe the enormous waves. In practice this was too ambitious a ride for my companion, now in her eighties.

After a couple of miles another cyclist approached us from behind and advised that we turn off just before the main T junction ahead of us. He showed us a cycle path to the left, which led to a gorge. We peeked over the ledge to admire the sandstone cliffs, and pulled back immediately. What a terrific drop! The deep, clear pool above the waterfall was more to our liking as a great bathing spot.

We broke our journey at a bed and breakfast that we knew from holidays of the past. My mother reimbursed the owner with a few stamps on behalf of my now-dead father. In doing so she repaid a debt of long ago.

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Treasure in the littered streets of Edinburgh (Rousse)

TPR and I moved into a new flat in a less-than-salubrious part of Edinburgh. Here the street was awash with litter, and weeds grew in the cracks in the pavement and along the centre of the main road.

We were pleased, however, that some of our new neighbours had obviously made an effort to tidy up their wee corner of the city, and we were keen to help them do more.

TPR got up bright and early to add an excess of Irn Bru cans to the mixed recycling bin across the road from our flat. Then, using a hoe that he borrowed from one of the neighbours, he started to dig up all sorts of ‘treasure’ from the middle of the road. This included a pair of unworn flip-flops, a pink T shirt from Debenhams, and a White Stuff woollen dress. I would never need to shop for clothes again!

Then I remembered that my in-laws were coming for tea, so hurried home to bake some scones.

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