My father-in-law’s much younger brother Richard invited me to the back of the house to show off his ‘gym’.

The old panelled bar – handmade by my father-in-law in the 1970s – still stood, and old water colours of sailing boats adorned the walls. In a far corner, I spotted the gym equipment – and Richard naked!

‘Please take your clothes off’ he instructed me. I refused, despite his explanation that he wanted to take my measurements, and it was best to weigh me undressed.

I later heard that he had asked the same of other women, including LM, all of whom had also rejected his disguised sexual advances.