Creative KT spent the whole day in her narrow sloping garden, tidying it up in anticipation of the arrival of J’s grandchildren. She even pitched the huge embroidered tent that I had bought in the charity shop. TPR had told me that this was just an old tablecloth, but he was now proved wrong – and me right.

Meanwhile SC was also exercising her creativity. I found her cutting up white cardboard at a long table. She was making laminated name place cards for a meeting. I wondered why she was doing this herself. What had happened to her PA?